Loving each other forever may often be the standard standard of quality relationships when you are young, naive, and lovesick. But along with your age and experience, you will realize that an adult relationship is not as easy as just loving forever.
When you have an adult relationship, the logic will be more talk and here you will be more aware that your relationship is healthy or not. Here are some signs that you already have a healthy and adult relationship.
You Make Friends with Your Spouse
A strong love relationship is always based on friendship. If you know the details of your spouse, your greatest fear, the desire that you desire, you will not hesitate and be ashamed to point out your shortcomings. Congratulations, you’re in a healthy, adult relationship.
Valuing Enterprises as Small as Possible
In this social media era, romantic things are often synonymous with materialistic things like holiday abroad together, sending bouquets of flowers, and others. Though the effort to show the feeling is not always expensive really. Can by cooking provisions, supportive, or just asking for news is a small effort that needs to be appreciated.
Communication is the Key
The aspect of communication is so important, even the foundation of your healthy relationship. Do you really state all your feelings and thoughts when problems occur, or your spouse tends to avoid being asked about a thing?
Smooth communication is a sign of trust from both sides. If you still like to hide, maybe you need to reevaluate your relationship.
The label “love has no logic” needs to be thrown away in the present era. In fact, healthy and adult relations are characterized by both parties being able to think realistically and using logic in solving problems.
Indeed, the feeling of love is the cornerstone of all relationships, but that does not mean to be everything. Career problems, finances, families, until incompatibility between you need to be discussed clearly. So when faced with problems, you and your partner can use will and healthy logic in solving it.
Do not Forget To Love Yourself
A healthy relationship is a relationship that allows you to love yourself. When you love yourself, you will more easily recognize the signs that unhealthy relationships like your partner tend to be manipulative or abusive, and others.
Loving yourself also makes you firm when faced with difficult times. Especially when he changes and physical violence, you will know that ending a relationship is the best decision.